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I’ve noticed that we as women get more sexually adventurous as we get older. Most women won’t admit it, and quite a few will skip right over this if they happen upon it. Not only that, but they will look down on me for talking about it, while at the same time be envious that I can.

When I was younger, sex was no big deal. With my ex, it was slam bam, in, out, and done. If I got any enjoyment out of it, I don’t recall it now. Back then, sex toys were something I snickered at, and the closest I came to foreign objects was holding the shower head close.

Now that I got not only my freedom, but my self respect back at age 31, look out here I come. I have learned there are different positions (although that whole upside down thing is a bit much for me, no matter how much we try), that having the lights on is a wonderful thing, and that I have a slightly twisted sex fiend that has been dying to get out.

There are lessons I have learned in my new found sex life. Most are fun, all are interesting, and some are lessons I will never forget. One prime example of this is the night the man and I decided it was time to try butt sex. (For some reason, I really dislike the word anal).  I’d like to say it was nice and slow, and that we eased into it. Well, he did, but my mind had other plans.

I had myself so worked up in my fear of the butt sex, that I decided it was like a band aid, just slam it in once, and the rest would be easy. I had also been doing “practice runs” myself, just to prepare. DO NOT ATTEMPT THIS AT HOME!! After I slammed myself back in my attempt to help the process, I felt my stomach in my throat, the tears in my eyes, and the breathe knocked right out of me. All I could do was whisper “please,*breath* just*breath* don’t move, let me*breath* get used to it,”.

After awhile, all was good, and no you don’t get the juicy details. But even with the initial pain, the excitement of something new was well worth it. I think that’s part of why I share this with you. Maybe there are more women out there who are like I used to be. Women who know they want more, but are afraid to try. Don’t let that stop you, be an explorer, even if you do nothing but try one new thing this year. Do it, you know you want to. There are some temptations in life worth trying, you have to tell yourself “what the hell, let’s go for it“.

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