Jan 17 2009
It’s okay to laugh
So apparently sex still embarrasses and makes people uncomfortable. So much so that even my pay rate dropped here after a review. Are we as humans still that pent up where we cannot laugh at sex? I mean, it’s not like I actually showed pictures from my latest escapade. No, I simply shared the funny parts in words. I know I am not the only woman, or even man who had something hilarious happen from a sexual adventure.
How many of you had fallen off the bed in the middle of a romantic moment? More than will admit I am sure. Ever gotten walked in on by one of your own children? Luckily I haven’t experienced that one yet. Ever tripped over your own shoes as you forgot to take them off, in such a rush to explore that passionate side of your partner? It wasn’t my shoes I tripped over, but a wire.. Or how many of you have compared the bruises and scrapes after a long night of sexual activity with your significant other? I have, and hope I always will.
There is always going to be someone who is offended by sex talk. I get that, I even understand it. There are so many things I have experienced with the man now, that I guffawed at before. Things I said I would NEVER try. I’m glad I didn’t stick to that now on most of those things. I am very glad I strayed from grandmothers talk that sex is something for the men, and women just give it up enough times to keep them happy.
I enjoy sex. I will not deny it. I also enjoy talking about it. Not the nitty gritty details mind you. But the fun part, the part where someone reading this will say “Hey, I had that happen too!”. There is a line we all draw concerning sex and there is nothing wrong with someone not agreeing with me, or vice verse. Just don’t close yourself down completely when it comes to your own sexual adventures. Trust me, I had eight years where I laid there, took it, and got not one bit of pleasure. It makes for a very sad relationship.
Now is my time to explore, to enjoy someone who looks out for my excitement as well as his own. If we happen to stumble along the way, hopefully we miss the phone cord as we do. If not, you’ll be one of the first to know.
