Nov 26 2008
How to get the nice guy
I get asked by women all the time, “How can I find a great guy? Where can I meet a nice guy, a decent guy?” Let me tell you ladies, it’s all very simple. Yes, I tell this same answer every time, even to friends I have known for years.
STOP BEING A WHORE!!
See how simple it is? Keep your clothes on, close your legs, and quit screwing every Joe Shmoe you meet on the street. Start by doing those four things, and perhaps you will meet a man who will not only fuck you, but take you home to meet mom and dad.
Going to the bar to meet a man is out. The only type of relationship you are going to find there is the one night kind. Keep your bar nights for simply hanging with your friends, and stop getting numbers from drunken men. Not only are you not going to remember them the next morning, but more than likely they won’t remember you either.
It’s the little things that turn a nice guy on, and most women are set on doing the exact opposite. I am lucky enough that I was never really that female, and that I already have the man I want. So to make it even easier to find your Mr. Right, here are even more tips for you.
1.Keep the makeup to a minimum~If a man has to carry tissues with him to wipe off your foundation/lipstick/blush every time he kisses you, it’s time to cut it down. Not only that, but think of this. If a man tells you that you are beautiful when you are wearing ten pounds of makeup, how keen are you going to be to keep a fresh clean face around him? Keep it real ladies, there is no need for that much makeup.
2.Cover up~Sure, you look sexy in those skin tight jeans and halter top. But if that’s all you ever wear, and never get yourself comfortable in a pair of sweat pants or a t-shirt that doesn’t show cleavage, how is a man supposed to take you home to meet mom. A nice guy will NEVER take a girl to his parents house wearing a mini skirt and a titty showing top. Find clothes that not only make you feel good, but are a little more appropriate.
3.Get off the drugs/alcohol~It’s one thing to be the life of the party, but when you party every day of your life and you are over 25, you will not find that great guy to spend the rest of your life with. A man wants a woman who is in control of herself, who can make good decisions. Being a drug user, or an alcoholic are not good choices.
4.Take care of you~Don’t go looking for a man to support you. Make sure you can take care of yourself not only financially, but physically and mentally first. A guy may like being the white in shining armor, but after a while having someone who depends on them constantly grows tiring.
5.Educate yourself~This doesn’t have to mean schooling. It also means find what is interesting to you, what things you like to learn about, and do it. This also helps you to have the ability to converse with the person who has the same interests in you. A man appreciates a woman who says what she means, and can have a good debate without it being an argument.
Those are just the basics, there are many more things a woman can do in life to get the nice guy. It’s easier if you get those I have listed down pat, and then take it from there. Just remember, keep true to yourself. Don’t change your looks or personality to match a mans. It may get you a good guy, but it won’t help you keep him.
